Resisting the Narcissist’s Attacks: A Reflection on Luke 4:1-13

In Luke 4:1-13, we see Jesus, full of the Holy Spirit, entering the wilderness, where Satan—the ultimate narcissist—tries to wear Him down with escalating attacks. First, Satan tempts Jesus through the flesh (hunger), then through power, control, and possessions, and finally by twisting God’s truth to provoke Him.

What Would Jesus Do?

Doesn’t this pattern sound familiar? When dealing with a narcissist, we often experience a gradual escalation of manipulation—starting with subtle temptations or flattery, then moving to control, and eventually outright provocation. They push harder when they see that their usual tactics aren’t working.

But what does Jesus do? He doesn’t engage. He doesn’t argue, explain, or seek validation. He simply rebukes the devil with the Word of God and remains focused on His mission. Discipline creates freedom. When we stay rooted in truth and refuse to react emotionally, the narcissist—just like Satan—eventually departs.

Staying Full of the Holy Spirit

Jesus was full of the Holy Spirit, which meant there were no cracks for Satan to exploit. Likewise, if we are spiritually filled and fortified, narcissistic attacks lose their power over us. This is why spiritual discipline is crucial. Here are some morning and evening routines we discussed at our Lectio Divina Meeting:

1. Morning Routine for Strength

• Morning Pages – Write 3 pages of stream-of-consciousness journaling to clear your mind.

• Scripture Reading – Root yourself in God’s Word before the day’s challenges arise by reading scripture every morning.

2. Evening Routine for Reflection

• The Examen Prayer – Review your day, recognizing where God was present and where you need to grow.

Breakthrough is Coming

Notice that Jesus’ greatest temptation came right before His public ministry began. Often, our greatest spiritual battles happen right before breakthrough. When the attacks intensify, it’s a sign that God is about to do something powerful in our lives.

If you feel like you’re being tested, stay rooted in Christ. Like Jesus, don’t engage, don’t react, and don’t let the enemy pull you off course. The enemy will depart—but your freedom in Christ will remain.